The Last Sabinzer

appeared in Family Chronicle,  2014

From a very young age, Niv understood that his surname, Sabinzer, was special. Outside of his immediate family– Holocaust survivors and their descendants– no one knew how to pronounce or spell it correctly. As he got older, Niv realized something else. Since he has no brothers and the men on his father’s side are childless or have only daughters, only he could perpetuate the Sabinzer name. Only he could memorialize the Sabinzers who perished in the Holocaust.

But even today, Niv knew, Jewish families are still discovering Holocaust survivors (or their descendants) who have forged new lives around the world. Even today, families are discovering “lost” branches that, nearly a century ago , sought economic advancement or freedom from persecution in distant lands. Were there other Sabinzers somewhere? “Who are we? Where did we come from? What kind of people were we?” he wondered.

From time to time, Niv googled Sabinzer and Sabinster, another family spelling, but found few hits. When Leonid, a close cousin, died unexpectedly at a young age, however, those questions arose again to haunt him. Postponing his research any longer, Niv realized, would only make it harder and harder. So he approached his eldest living relative, a distant cousin ( also named Leonid), whose mother was a Sabinzer.

This cousin provided not only the names of his parents and brother, but also those of his Sabinzer grandfather’s family. Although their roots were in the Novo-Alexandrovsk region, several generations back, he revealed, they migrated south to a village near Minsk. Both areas, at the time, were part of the Russian Empire.

Cousin Leonid also had a personal tale to tell. When the Nazis invaded Russia in 1941, his high school class was visiting Moscow. Within days, Minsk (today in Belarus) was heavily bombarded. So instead of returning home, he and his classmates were sent to an orphanage. Leonid survived, but never saw his family again.

Niv, heartened by his cousin’s revelations, tried Google once more. This time, he came across an A. Sabintsev. Although A. knew little of his family history, he did recall that his grandfather’s original surname had once been Sabintser– one of Niv’s surname variations. Local authorities in post-war anti-Semitic Belarus, he explained, had changed Sabintser to less Jewish-sounding Sabintsev.

[A. Sabintsev adds: To the best of  the my  family’s knowledge, the Nazis killed off Boris’s entire family. What I know is that he had a younger brother, but to our knowledge, the younger brother was also killed off in the war. Boris was raised as an orphan, and lived in an orphanage throughout the duration of World War II. After the war ended, his name was purposefully changed from Sabintser to Sabintsev by an authority that was sympathetic to Jews. The name Sabintsev sounded less Jewish, so the intention was to make it easier for Boris in post-war Belarus.]

 

When A. revealed that his grandfather, Boris Sabintsev, was alive and well in Maryland, Niv practically jumped for joy. Boris, he learned, had roots in the Novo-Aleksandrovsk District, had been born in Minsk, had lost his entire family during the Holocaust, and had survived in an orphanage– exactly like his elderly cousin. So might Niv and A. be distant cousins?

Because Jews traditionally name babies after the recently departed, their family trees are often studded with repeating Abrahams, Isaacs– or Leonids. Boris Sabinstev, however, has been unable to recognize any personal names on Niv’s family tree. Just the same, Niv and A. hope, one day, to discover common ancestors through DNA testing.

In the meantime, Niv’s father searched for Sabinzer, in its original Russian spelling, on Google. Though he found no direct hits, he came across an online book that explains origins of Russian-Jewish surnames. Sabinzer, it discloses, originated in    a Novo-Aleksandrovsk District hamlet called Sobyantsy. Neither Niv nor his father, however, have located this community in relevant gazetteers, maps, or elsewhere. They wonder if Sobyantsy might be a local pronunciation of modern-day Subačius , 75 miles away– or someplace else, long gone.

Niv then registered at http://www.Jewishgen.org. This comprehensive site offers free access to thousands of databases, research tools, and other resources that further Jewish ancestral research and help locate “lost” family members.

First, utilizing the soundex feature of JewishGen’s Family Finder, Niv located two genealogists who were also researching Sabinzer/ Sabentser with origins in the Belarus/Latvia/Lithuania region. Both their families, he learned, fled Europe before World War Two and settled in South Africa. Later generations spread to Australia, New Zealand, and the United States.

Niv recognizes several personal names on their family trees. He has yet to discover a connection to their branches, however.

To his surprise, Family Finder also revealed several people researching Spenser/ Spencer (surnames phonetically similar to Sabinzer) with roots in Great Britain. Niv still wonders if some of his Sabinzers, like these, anglicized their names?

Next Niv explored relevant JewishGen online databases. Though he knew his family had lived in Minsk for several generations, none appeared in detailed extracts from the city’s early 19th century civil records. Guessing that they had not yet left Novo-Alexandrovsk (today Zarasai, Lithuania) then, he sought comparable 19th century records in JewishGen’s Litvak Special Interest Group “All-Lithuania Database.” Sure enough, relevant birth, marriage, divorce, internal passport, and death records reveal that people with Sabinzer sound-alike surnames (Shabentser, Sabentser , Sabenser, and Sabancher) were then living in towns across the Novo-Alexandrovsk District of Kovno Gubernya.

These variations may reflect local pronunciations and the language (Russian Cyrillic, Polish, Hebrew, or Yiddish) in which their documents were written. They may also reflect JewishGen volunteers’ translation and/or transliteration skills. Yet all these people may have been related.

Discovery of several Sabinzer 1920/1921 applications for internal passports was another All-Lithuania Database surprise. They suggest that Sabinzers, like many others, survived World War One deep in the Russian interior, then returned to newly-independent Lithuania. Internal passports dated 1930 through 1936, when the country suffered economic depression, suggest a desire to better their circumstances elsewhere. In these later documents, Sabinzer variations appear as Sabencerienes, Sabenceraites, and Sabenceras. These traditional Lithuanian-language endings indicate gender and marital status.

Because modern-day Latvia, just over the border, had also been part of the Russian Empire, Niv next explored JewishGen’s Latvia Database. Then he searched the 1897 Russian Census. By the late 1800s, he found, several Sabentzers, though born in Novo-Alexandrovsk, had moved to nearby Dvinsk, in the Vitebsk Gubernya (today Daugavpils, Latvia).

Records in the Belarus Births Database reveal that Niv’s great-great grandfather had indeed lived near Minsk, in a village called Rakov. When his son Grisha married, the newlyweds moved to Mintz itself. The couple had three children, Faina, Shura, and (another) Leonid– Niv’s grandfather.

 

Grisha Sabinzer, born in Rakov, Belarus
Grisha Sabinzer, born in Rakov, Belarus

 

Leonid, who was 15 years old when the Nazis occupied the city, had much to share.

Everyone in Russia’s eastern, recently-annexed areas of Bukovina, Bessarabia, and the Baltics– which were swelling with waves of Polish refugees– feared the atrocities of the Third Reich. Millions sought refuge as Nazi troops, the largest invasion in the history of warfare, advanced. Those who could fled on their own. Many perished along the way.

Soviet authorities sent over a million Jews by rail to Soviet republics deep in Central Asia, including Kazakhstan, Turkmenistan, Kyrgyzstan, and Tadzhikistan, to assure their safety. Still, more than a million remained behind. A great many of these perished at the hands of Einsatzgruppen, small, mobile Nazi death squads that village by village, town by town, rounded them up, then systematically shot them. Einsatzgruppen often kept records of their massacres, noting dates, locations, and the number of their victims. To this day, however, most victims, who were buried in mass graves, remain nameless.

In the meantime, Grisha, Leonid’s father, like millions of other able-bodied men, had been drafted into the Soviet army. His wife and children, fortunately, were sent over 2500 miles away, near Tashkent, in Uzbekistan.

Niv also discovered copies of their refugee registration cards, which are archived in the Central State Archives of the Republic of Uzbekistan in Tashkent, on JewishGen. They not only verified his grandfather’s tale– a recurrent part of his childhood, but brought his family history to life.

Many refugees in Tashkent, like others who found shelter across Central Asia, perished from disease. Others, including Leonid’s mother and 16 year old sister, died of starvation. Their deaths, like that of most, went unremarked. Neither are their gravesites known.

Recently, members of Niv’s family submitted Pages of Testimony in their names to the Central Database of Shoah Victims’ Names at Jerusalem’s Holocaust Heroes’ and Martyrs’ Remembrance Authority. So far, this depository, which actively encourages further entries, commemorates the lives of four million Jews.

After his mother and sister died, Shura, Leonid’s older brother, was also drafted into the Soviet army. Leonid, like other youngsters bereft, abandoned, or left on their own, was transferred to an orphanage for the duration of the war. Because conditions were so bad there, however, he soon fled, preferring to wander from place to place in search of food and shelter. When Leonid came of age, he too was drafted.

 

Niv's grandparents, Leonid and Natasha Sabinzer
Niv’s grandparents, Leonid and Natasha Sabinzer

 

After the war, Leonid, Shura, and their father returned to Minsk. In 1972, when the USSR  allowed massive numbers of Jews to leave the country, Leonid, his wife Natasha, and their children, Sasha, Genia, and David, emigrated to  Israel.

 

Sabinzer family prior to their 1972 arrival in Israel
Sabinzer family prior to their 1972 arrival in Isra

 

Sasha is childless. Genia has two daughters. David, married to Dalia and living in Beersheba, has two daughters and one son– Niv Sabinzer.

 

David, young cousin Leonid, and Sasha Sabinzer
David, young cousin Leonid, and Sasha Sabinzer

 

Hopefully, Niv’s journey through his past will continue. Nearly all JewishGen databases, which are compiled by volunteer transcribers and translators, are works-in-progress. So additional information may come to light. Familysearch.com, a service provided by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latterday Saints (LDS), currently offers worldwide access (except for Israel) to the Kovna Gubernya Jewish Metrical books 1822-1940. In the future, they may film other relevant documents as well. Additional Jewish records, if still restricted to archives across Latvia, Lithuania, Belarus, and Uzbekistan, may also become accessible. And other Sabinzer researchers may one day seek Niv out.

Niv’s personal journey continues as well. In 2012, he and his wife Einav welcomed their first child Roni, a daughter.  Recently, they welcomed  a son, Guy Sabinzer.

 

 

 

Masks—Lookin’ Good!

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When you were little, did you ever create a   brown-paper bag  mask?

Whether you cover your face with your hands and peek out from between your fingers or screw up your face into a parody of itself, you become, for the briefest of moments, someone else. And in the process, you recreate the oldest masks in history, ones that, from the beginning of time, have protected concealed, frightened, and delighted all humankind.

The earliest man-wrought masks probably represented animals, since successful hunts were a matter of life and death. Others, imbued with sacred power likely figured in initiation, healing, and funereal rites.

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Primitive mask, recent exhibit, Israel Museum. Jerusalem, Israel

The word mask, which harks back to Latin for spector or witch,  appears in similar forms in Arabic, Hebrew, Italian, and French. Over the ages, masks have starred in Greek drama, sent tribesmen on the warpath, summoned otherworldly spirits, and offered protection in the face of danger.

plague mask

During the Black Death, and later during the Great Plague of London, masks were thought to ward off disease. In addition to wide-brimmed hats, long gowns, leather gloves and breeches, full length boots, plague doctors donned face masks featuring  red glass, evil-resistant eye pieces and beaked noses. These beaks, primitive gas masks of sorts, were stuffed with aromatic, air-purifying spices or herbs. Although these courageous healers may not have saved a single soul, they must have struck the fear of God into all they met.

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Plague physician….courtesy WIKI

 

Masks come in all shapes and sizes, ranging from simple eye coverings and inverted “train robber” cloth triangles, to those as large as the human  body. The world over, they are generally fashioned from whatever material  is at hand. Masks, whether made of leather, wood,   corn husks, or gourds can, in a single glance, capture the essence of different lives  around the world.

 

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Venetian masks, courtesy WIKI
Commedia dell'arte players
Commedia Dell-arte player masks

Sean Carmeli

 

Golani Sgt. Sean Carmeli,   whose family lives in South Padre Island,  Texas,  was killed in Gaza on July 20th.  Sean   was a  ” lone soldier.”

Israeli  soldiers generally get home every week or so, enjoying  family, the amenities of home,  favorite foods,  a few hours of rest,  and evenings with friends.

Although lone soldiers– volunteer non-nationals with no close family in the country, receive many  benefits to ease their way,

they   lack the extended social network that personifies our tiny land.  So if  any are killed in the line of duty, few  accompany them   on their  last journey.

When Sean’s death was announced, however,   his favorite soccer team, Maccabi Haifa,

encouraged  their fans–via social networks–to attend his funeral.

And  they came.

From all over the country.

Tens of thousands.

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As one explained, ” With us there are no  lone soldiers.  We all share one heart.”

 

 

War, personally

I usually don’t share  personal observations and reactions.

So many of my friends have asked, however, that I feel I must describe  the latest developments here in Israel.

After years of  Hamas bombing  our southern towns, villages, and kibbutzim, to our collective relief,  we  responded mightedly by air.

This was not enough.

Since we left Gaza  in 2005, instead of building hospitals, factories, and other things to improve the life of their people,  Hamas has been building warren-like underground tunnels.  At first, these facilitated passage of  foods, medicines, goods.  In time, however, they were transformed into fortified war-tunnels– conduits for smuggling arms/missiles  in — and conduits  for clandestinely  entering Israel for attacks and kidnapping.

After a massive national draft,  and  hundreds of rockets reaching as far as Jerusalem, Tel Aviv, and Haifa (80% of the country– think from the East Coast to Colorado)– as well as  an agreement for  a cease fire WHICH THE HAMAS BROKE–our ground forces entered Gaza.  Because the area is so small– and so densely populated– we expect  many battle casualties.  But no country would agree  to live under rocket fire.

Our soldiers  are our children, our brothers, our uncles, our cousins. our husbands.  Gilad, a 39 year old father of 5  who serves in the Engineering Corps, is taking  apart bombs and  booby traps.  Gabi, a 19 year old  far from his home in  London,  is a battle medic  also under fire…. just two examples of thousands  Religious or not, they were sent with a prayer: you are fighting for your home, your family, your fight is holy. God bless, amen selah.

And on the home front?   We  endure bombs, one-after-another  (depending on where we live) many times a day.  It  becomes routine.  You  cook,   you shop, you drive, you linger in a mall or  in an outdoor café– but your ears are tuned …. just in case.    There’s no mistaking a siren.  It cuts your soul,  throbs like a heartbeat, danger! danger!

What do you do? You panic. You turn off the gas, you grab your keys,  you pull your car over to the side of the road, you  run to a shelter. If you have one.  If you have enough timeOr you lay down, cover your head, and pray.

You have

15 seconds if you live along the Gazan border

30 seconds if you live a bit   farther, then 45, 60, 90, and  3 minutes….. not enough time to think, barely enough time to react.

And us?

We share a shelter with 2 other families.  We rarely go there, instead preferring to lie on the floor at home, hands over our heads.

N, in Jerusalem, has no shelter.  She sits in the bathroom, one without tiled walls or mirrors– which would injure  her  from explosion or implosion.

E, who  works in Tel Aviv where rockets often fall,  has access to a  bomb-proof area. But he gets to work by electric bike, 20 minutes each way.  Outside.    When need be, he ducks into  the nearest building,  crouches by the nearest concrete wall.

He, his pregnant wife,  and their  1 year old, live in Ramat Gan, just outside Tel Aviv.  They either sleep at his in-laws, who have a bomb shelter at home ( required in all recently built houses)–  or  they  go outside, downstairs, and cower under a stairwell.  While holding the baby—-awake or asleep.

The baby spends 9 hours a day at day care, where there is no shelter at all.  The kids just lie down.

 

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But  how can you make a baby–just beginning to walk–stay still?

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